Integrative Psychodynamic Counselling
Online + Face to Face Based in Sidcup, Kent
Meet The Founder
Bilkan Kilicer
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Hi, I’m Bilkan Kilicer. I’m an integrative psychodynamic counsellor, and I work mainly with people who are trying to make sense of difficult experiences especially those linked to trauma, anxiety, and patterns that feel hard to break.
What led me to counselling was, in many ways, quite personal. When I first started learning about the mind and emotions, something clicked. I began to understand myself in ways I never had before why I reacted the way I did, where certain feelings came from, and how my past had been quietly shaping my present. That process changed everything for me, and it’s what inspired me to help others do the same.
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How I Can Help
My work is grounded in understanding how your past experiences—especially those that were overwhelming or painful—can shape how you feel, think, and relate to others today.
I have a particular focus on working with trauma. Trauma isn’t just about what happened to you—it’s also about how your mind and body responded to those experiences. It can leave you feeling anxious, disconnected, stuck, or even like you don’t quite know who you are anymore. These responses are not signs of weakness—they’re your body and mind trying to protect you.
In our work together, we gently explore these patterns at your pace. The aim isn’t to "fix" you, but to understand and support the parts of you that have been carrying pain for a long time—so that healing and change can begin.
The Next Steps
Free 20-Minute Consultation
Starting therapy can feel like a big step, and it’s important to find the right fit. That’s why I offer a free, no-obligation 20-minute consultation. It’s a chance for us to talk, for you to ask any questions, and to get a sense of how I work as a counsellor. Whether you're feeling unsure, curious, or ready to begin, this space is here to help you take the first step comfortably.
Face to Face Therapy
I offer in-person sessions in a safe, confidential space where we can explore what’s going on for you at your own pace. Sessions last 50 minutes,
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Fees:
£65 for individuals
£55 for students (with valid ID)
Online Therapy
I offer online sessions via Zoom, providing flexibility and comfort from your own space. It’s a convenient way to access support, especially if you have a busy schedule or prefer therapy from home.
Sessions are 50 minutes.
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Fees:
£55 for online sessions
£45 for students (with valid ID)
Phone Therapy
Phone sessions offer a flexible and accessible way to receive support, especially if you're more comfortable talking without video or have limited internet access. Sessions are 50 minutes and provide the same level of care and confidentiality as in-person or online therapy.
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Fees:
£55 for phone sessions
£45 for students (with valid ID)